Becoming

Life is about the journey, it is not about "being, but becoming."

becoming…adj. fit, suitable, congruous, proper, graceful, belonging to the character or adapted to circumstances…

"This life, therefore, is not righteousness, but growth in righteousness; not health, but healing; not being, but becoming; not rest, but exercise. We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it. The process is not yet finished, but it is going on. This is not the end, but it is the road. All does not yet gleam in glory, but all is being purified."--- Martin Luther, *Defense of All the Articles*, Lazareth transl., as found in Grace Brame, *Receptive Prayer* (Chalice Press, 1985) p.119(Thank you Bella Art Girl for the quote!)

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Momnesia, there is actually a name for that memory lapse!

Awhile back I skimmed a news article on "momnesia" and chuckled to myself a bit. I have always been a chronic list-maker and can have my spacey/forgetful moments. And after I had children, I was still a chronic list-maker with spacey/forgetful moments. I actually thought having children gave me an excuse for being how I had always been-"Oh, I forgot that? Well, of course I did, I now have my own stuff, and the stuff of a husband and 1, 2, 3 and now-4 kid's stuff to remember!" I am not convinced that I actually remember less, I am convinced that I have more to remember now! I do recall being especially forgetful at times after the births of my children, but, for pity's sake-I was sleep deprived and enraptured with a new little person! Isn't it understandable to be a little spacey/forgetful when one is sleep deprived or head over heels in love? Let alone when one is sleep deprived and head over heels in love!

Here are some other things to read on Momnesia:

This article is lighthearted and a quick read.

"Amy Prather of Nampa, Idaho, for example, occasionally leaves wet laundry in the washing machine or forgets to return phone calls." This article takes the whole Momnesia thing pretty seriously. I mean, is it really a diagnosable condition to leave wet laundry in the washing machine or forget to return a phone call? Frankly, this article could leave one feeling a bit paranoid. I have occasionally forgotten wet laundry and forgotten to return phone calls since I was like 14!

And the post that made me smile, because I can so relate, and motivated this post!

1 comments:

Jen Rouse said...

I'm glad I'm not alone!

That article did take it fairly seriously. If the laundry thing is a sign of a failing memory--well, I may have to be committed to a home by the time I'm 35, because I've NEVER been good about remembering to keep up with that.

The article also made breastfeeding sound like being high. "Breast-feeding can prolong the mental haze, Brizendine says, by circulating hormones that help mothers relax and promote a "mellow, mildly unfocused" feeling." (I'm guessing--since though I have lots of experience breastfeeding I have none being high.) I do kind of doze if I'm nursing while tired, though, and I love to read while nursing but I can't focus on anything very difficult. It has to be fairly light reading. Hey, at least breastfeeding is keeping me mellow!